A Man in Burlesque

It was four years ago today that I first stepped onto stage in a burlesque show. The first show I performed in I co-produced with Pink Flamingo Burlesque and Malaika Millions. I was the bandleader and guitar player. And yes, I took my clothes off on stage. I even did a shoulder-stand in my boxers while playing "Harlem Nocturne" on the guitar, upside-down!

These four years seemed to have passed quickly, and yet that first show feels so long ago. Since then I have played almost every role a person can in this business. I have been a producer, musician, solo boylesque performer, group dancer, composer, DJ, festival board member, lighting designer, and recently stage kitty.

I love burlesque and it's hard for me to imagine my life without it. But I know that day could come.

A guest in this community

Blue Morris photo by Ian West

I attended BurlyCon for the first time this year. I learned a great deal and also heard many things that got me thinking about burlesque and my place in it. In a panel discussion, Waxy Moon (a man) said something that pricked up my ears. Appreciating the joy he feels to have burlesque in his life, Waxy Moon gave a heartfelt thank-you to the burlesque community and said, "I feel so grateful to be a guest in this community of women."

When I heard that sentence my heart sank and for the rest of the day I couldn't help from asking myself this question over and over again: "Am I just a guest in this community?"

The remains of that day at BurlyCon were all the more interesting to me. As I walked the hotel halls, attended the seminars, and conversed at the parties, I noticed more than ever before that I was part of a minority. I was one of only a couple men in every class I attended. I don't know the numbers, but I would guess that BurlyCon was attended by about 95% women.

It's not surprising. But having worked in burlesque for four years now, I forgot that I am a minority in this business. I had become so accustomed to the company of women, and I have gratefully become so accepted by the women I work with, that I forget I am different. . . .

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Adam Cohen "What Other Guy" - Guitar Chords

One of my students requested to learn this song. I hadn't heard it before tonight but I love it. It's funny just how much this sounds like his father. But I think it's a beautiful, simple song, with lovely lyrics.

I didn't find any correct chords on-line so I thought I would post on my blog the chords that I'm hearing in this.

(This is all relative to Capo VI:) It sounds like he is having some fun with the C chord. He is adding the 9 (a D) to the chord, and he is not playing the high E string, so the chord ends up something like this: x3203x. He also turns it into a Cmaj7 chord in the intro just by removing the D note on the B string to reveal the major 7th: x3200x.

ADAM COHEN - WHAT OTHER GUY
Cadd9: x3203x
G: 32003x
Em: 022000
D: xx0232
G/F#: 2x0003
G/B: x20003

Capo VI

Intro:
Cadd Cmaj7  G

Cadd9                               G
    I know what you look like in the morning
                         Cadd9
Your kisses are soft and warm
                            G
I can draw you with my eyes closed
                                     Cadd9
See you with nothing on but the radi-o
                                    G
I know how many years of French you took
                                    Cadd9
Your favourite movies, your favourite books
                            G
I know what really gets you going... glowing

  Em             D                      Cadd9
I know where you go with your beautiful friends
  Em            D          Cadd9
I know what you taste like when the night ends

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Dirty Dancing Burlesque Photos

Here are some of the best photos from the November 2011 Dirty Dancing Burlesque show! All photos are by Greg McKinnon.Thank you very much Greg for your awesome work!

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